Week in the Life photo project – a little slice of life right now. Normal. Routine. Real.
(Week in the Life – a concept introduced to me by Ali Edwards that has become one of my favorite over the last few years)
Today is the final excerpt from my week of documenting life’s little realities. I spent the week of April 10th taking photos and jotting notes and this past week I’ve been pulling each day together into a blog post. Today I’m sharing
(Easter Sunday as it happens)
Rolled out of bed to make sure the Easter Bunny had hidden all the eggs. Sam fired up the smoker to start on the meat for dinner tonight.
Tyler’s up and wakes up his sister, both happy to explore their Easter baskets from Sam and me.
Roller blades, flip flops, and Ipod case and headphones for Kaitlyn. Scooter, swimsuit and goggles, and the Spy School book he has repeatedly requested for Tyler. Both very pleased and excited.
Bambi was wound up by all the excitement – and by the kids trying out their blades and scooter in the hallway. She needed a long hug to calm down.
Outside to hunt for eggs. Kaitlyn is still better at it than Tyler, though that only bothers him when she beats him to an egg he has spotted and was close to grabbing for himself.
Exploring their loot. Our system is to dump all the candy in a bowl and everyone grabs what they want throughout the day. Some eggs also contained items specifically for the kids. Tyler got a Lego set (Star Wars) and Kaitlyn, a crystal 3D puzzle.
Cinnamon and orange rolls for breakfast.
The rest of the day everyone filled in their own ways. Sam started packing his equipment for his trip and he and Tyler finished off the Pinewood Derby car. (Pinewood Derby is Tuesday night) Kaitlyn tried out her new rollerblades, listened to music, etc. I started and finished an entire book, My (Not So) Perfect Life by Sophie Kinsella. A light, easy read.
Dinner with the family, entirely homemade by Sam (who likes to spend large chunks of time cooking when nothing else is on the agenda). Shredded pork, homemade rolls, grill fries. Yum.
And that, my dears, concludes my Sunday and my Week in the Life photo project – at least the documenting part of it. As always, it has been a learning experience. Some days are easy to document, some are hard. Some things in the day are happy, some are routine, and some are a struggle.
-not a single shot of all 4 of us in the same photo. I’ll fix that soon. Well, as soon as the husband gets back from overseas.
-had fully intended to take a few portrait-type shots of each of the kids and include a list of things particular to them right now. Truly plan to follow through with that as soon as I get a chance.
-self-timer shots were almost non-existent. Not so much because I’m not wanting to be in the photos this time around, but more likely because they take more forethought and time to set up. All of my photos were definitely “in the moment” and not planned out ahead of time.
-felt weird about asking others to be in photos with me/for me this week. Too intrusive? Sam and the kids are used to me taking photos at random times for random reasons, the other people in my life – not so much. So I have photos of things at the gym but not one of myself and my workout buddy. I have photos of my walk, but not any that include my friend. And so on. I’ll work on it.
I may wish I had taken more/others/been more creative but I won’t regret the photos I did take and can now enjoy over and over again.
I have ordered photo prints and can’t wait to get started on putting it all together in an album. While I wait for those to arrive I’ll be back to working on blog updates for the Great Kitchen Remodel and thinking of more ideas for upcoming Teacher Appreciation (like THIS and THIS) and Mother’s Day. Always something to look forward to and plan for, right?
Until then, feel free to glance through the rest of my week.
Getting close to the end of this year’s Week in the Life photo project, documenting the small or routine things in daily life. Saturday happened to be one of the more eventful days of the week – in it’s own ordinary, familiar way.
(Interested in the Week in the Life concept? You can find out more on Ali Edwards’ blog)
With everyone home on weekends, we usually devote at least a portion of our days to family time. My original plan was to do something new and hike to some hot springs I recently heard about. But it was a restless night with Sam getting a migraine at 3AM. Eventually he did fall asleep again and the migraine backed off but the thought of a hike no longer appealed to him.
We usually allow ourselves and the kids a slow start on the weekends, letting them stay in bed until 8:30 if they’re still sleeping and taking our time with breakfast and getting dressed for the day.
Sam had errands he wanted to run in the city so I gave in (really was NOT feeling like dragging the kids all over that day) and we headed out.
First stop was Best Buy for a power adaptor then lunch at Zupa’s, one of the few restaurants where everyone in the family can find something they like. Tyler had asked to try the chocoloate mousse cake and Sam told him we would think about it if he ate his lunch without reminders. That isn’t always a motivator for him, but today our picky eater ate his entire grilled cheese without any problem so he got the cake. And uncomplainingly shared it with his sister.
I had spotted running shoes at good prices while out shopping earlier in the week so our next stop was taking Kaitlyn to try some on (for the upcoming 10K she is running with Sam). She didn’t love anything at either place so it was on to the Verizon store. The kids and I wandered down to Home Goods while Sam went into Verizon (where he didn’t really have any luck getting questions answered).
Wanting to keep Tyler happy and figuring it was a good break from the errands, we took the kids to one of the newer parks Sam had run across while out and about for work. Great park, with plenty of things to handle the bigger crowd on a warm spring Saturday. Tyler had a lot of fun running around.
Kaitlyn is getting too old for that kind of thing. She tried out that spinning thing with her dad and she and I did some swinging on the hammock thing, but most of the time she just hung out with me and visited.
We decided an hour was long enough at the park and headed off to Costco. I always try to avoid shopping on Saturdays and Costco is one of the worst places for Saturday crowds. But Sam wanted to stock up on protein bars and drinks for his long plane ride (flying military cargo or whatever so they if they want to eat they have to pack it).
About half-way through Costco, while stopped at a sample stand, I spotted a rash on Tyler’s arm. We were surprised and disturbed to see it covering both of his lower arms. Seeing that it stopped abruptly where his sleeves started, I made the assumption that it was some kind of allergic reaction from something he touched, probably at the park. I left Sam and Kaitlyn to check out and Tyler and I headed into the bathroom to wash his arms repeatedly. Thank goodness for family bathrooms so I could help him with that.
We found Kaitlyn and Sam waiting for us, churros in hand. Nice surprise.
I had Benadryl in the car. It’s not the first time I’ve been happy to have my little Just in Case kit in the car. Though getting a giant bottle of Benadryl wouldn’t have been hard to do at Costco.
At that point we figured it was time to head up the canyon, taking a pic of the road sign we had been seeing often on the freeway all day. For some reason we all found the message “Some bunny loves you drive focused” amusing or at least interesting.
We stopped at Park City for another stab at finding running shoes. Options found but Kate was not in love with any of them at Famous Footwear. After trying on many pairs we found a winner at New Balance. Tyler had quickly found a pair he liked, which worked out nicely for the Buy One Get One 50% off deal. (Can’t resist those right?)
At some point during the drive we had figured out the rest of our plan for the weekend and Easter so our final stop before heading home was the grocery store.
Tyler finally gave in to the Benadryl and fell asleep on the way home.
Once home everyone helped unload the car and put everything away. Tyler fell back to sleep on the couch downstairs, promising to wake up for dinner in half an hour.
Sam, Kaitlyn and I prepped DIY pizzas. Pepperoni and cheese for Kaitlyn. Pesto chicken with gouda for Sam and myself. Just cheese for Tyler.
I had a very hard time getting Tyler to wake up and come upstairs, but I didn’t want him falling asleep so early and not sleeping through the night. Eventually he did get up, but wouldn’t eat.
It wasn’t until dinner was put away and we had the eggs and dye all set up that he perked up enough to participate.
Tyler and Kate both took their time doing something different to each egg and experimenting with various methods and techniques. This might be the first year I wasn’t stressed about one spilling something or needing extra help and could just sit back and take photos. (One of the few times I pulled out the big camera during Week in the Life.)
The rash had faded some but was far from going away. *sigh* Thank goodness it didn’t itch or bother him – just looked nasty.
Lots of photos of the egg decorating (ruthlessly editing them here – be glad!) then I set aside the camera for the rest of the night. Long day. Everyone is tired, mostly in a good way (poor Ty).
Saturday, more than the rest of the days this week, has me introspective as I look back at it. Lots of lessons there.
-We did a good job of making the Have Tos fun.
-Gracefully changing plans last minute (something I’m not always good at).
-Dealing with whatever comes our way as best we can. It’s what we have to do.
-Kids value traditions, even when I think they may be getting too old for them.
Kaitlyn was surprised when I mentioned that I really had not wanted to spend the day shopping. She thought the whole day had been fun. And it had. I love this little family of mine and being together is good no matter what we’re doing.
I think I am personally, however, struggling with a need to change how we do things a bit. Maybe to free up some of the roles I’ve been filling exclusively as the mom. Especially in regards to responsibilies for making plans and coming up with ideas for entertainment. My desire to play “cruise director” is at low ebb right now.
One more day in the books! And one more day to finish documenting for this year’s Week in the Life project. Check back tomorrow!
Fri-day! Fri-day! Fri-day!
One of my favorite days of the week, even when we have no plans for the weekend and I know that entertaining everyone may be more work than I usually do on a weekday. There’s just something about Fridays that make me happy.
So without further ado…
(for Week in the Life, which I spent last week documenting and am spending this week pulling it together here on the blog. Photos in today’s post were taken Friday, April 14, 2017)
“You put on workout clothes. Are we going for a walk?!!” Actually I’m surprised she sat still long enough for a photo. She can hardly contain her excitement if I come out of my room wearing yoga pants or gym shoes. Most of the time I’m simply headed to the gym but today she is right. We are headed out for a walk as soon as the boy gets on the bus.
Dishes and straightening up the kitchen while the little guy eats breakfast and packs lunch. More to clean up than usual since I didn’t take the time for dishes yesterday and the other adults in the house don’t often do so.
Doesn’t she look happy? Off to pick up my friend for our walk.
Sandhill cranes, horses, cows, and lots of clouds on our walk this morning. Love that I can get out with a friend once in a while and enjoy being outside while also making the dog amazingly happy.
Biggest thing on the list today was Easter prep. As you can see, I had plenty of help.
Eventually she did relax and let me finish the Easter baskets and start working on teacher appreciation.
Friday is early out day, including Sam this time around. Bambi has to greet everyone and get some attention before the rest of us can sit down and talk to each other about our days.
I’m all out of dinner ideas (and supplies) for the week. Surprisingly, Tyler had a dinner suggestion that didn’t involve pizza (he requests pizza at least twice a week) so I took him with me to the grocery store. We picked up tortellini and garlic bread then I let him help select some ice cream for dessert.
Red Button is the BEST ice cream. Tyler chose Cookies and Cream and I grabbed Raspberry Ripple Chocolate Chip (since they were on 2 for ___).
Dinner prep and time to unload the dishwasher. Yes, we typically do eat early, usually around 5:00.
Ice cream and TV time. And how great that the sun is setting later in the day.
Ah, Week in the Life.
I’ve been enjoying the time spent over the last few days pulling all the photos and journaling together. I’ve even managed to order photo prints so I can start putting the album together soon.
Every year is a learning experience. I see the kids growing and changing. I see routines that feel like they have been the same forever actually evolve and change. I see mannerisms and habits that seem so familiar right now that will only be memories in a few years.
Every year I don’t capture everything I could, but I do get plenty of little glimpses.
Want more details on the project? Check out Ali Edward’s blog and the WITL community.
Two more days to document! Please check back tomorrow!
Halfway through documenting Week in the Life at this point – taking photos of all kinds of things I don’t spend much time documenting in daily life. I’ve done this project a few times before and usually at this point I’m starting to lose a little enthusiasm and taking fewer photos. This year has been the opposite. It took me a few days to really warm up to the project and the second half of the week I was more prolific with the photos – even while out running errands, which is how I spent a good part of my day Thursday.
*I spent last week taking the photos so this week is dedicated to pulling them together in a series of blog posts. These photos were taken Thursday, April 13 – before Easter, in case you were wondering 😉
(Want more info or to join in the project? Check out Ali Edwards’ blog and the Week in the Life Community)
Surprised to find Tyler was up and dressed already. Instant Breakfast is his breakfast of choice lately. Sam skips breakfast but it looks like he did make a cup of coffee to take on the drive to work.
Guess who got promoted! First day with the new stripes (ok 2nd, as he wouldn’t stop for a photo yesterday) since he has to be at the base a few days this week. Pretty sure he is enjoying the break from his regular job.
Sometimes I skip the oatmeal and go for the kids’ cereal.
Everyone off to school/work and I FINALLY have a clear morning where all I have to worry about it my own agenda so I’m off to the city to do my Easter shopping. Usually I’m ready for holidays much further ahead than this and I wasn’t exactly happy about that. I’m feeling pretty upbeat today and I think knowing I can check this off my list has a lot to do with my mood.
Easter candy, random items for baskets, a scooter for Tyler, rollerblades for Kaitlyn. Ordering online probably would have been the better option for the larger items but I didn’t decide on them far enough ahead of time. So I had to do a little extra running around.
Target first (of course!) where I didn’t purchase much but enjoyed looking around. Shopko, then Big 5 where I stopped to call Sam for help making the final decision on scooters. Opted to buy rollerblades for Kate there (in a size that fits me! She’s growing up way too fast) then back-trackted to Target to get the scooter I had spotted earlier.
I grabbed lunch from Chipolte and ate it in the car while listening to the 5 Love Languages before heading back up the canyon.
I completed the rest of my errands in Park City with a trip to Michael’s (where I only purchased weights for the Tyler’s Pinewood Derby car – can you believe that?!) and TJ Maxx.
The last stop was Smith’s for dishwasher soap – and I walked out with all that!
It had been a beautiful day, warmer than any we’ve had so far this spring. Thus the slushie impulse buy.
Made it home, unloaded the car, and had just enough time to add a fun vinyl saying to the water bottle I picked up for the friend I’ve been meeting at the gym. She never remembers to bring her water bottle and they had only ONE left in one of my favorite styles at TJ Maxx. I also gave her a bag of her favorite Easter candy that she mentioned a few days ago that she hadn’t been able to find. She was pretty happy.
I had warned Kaitlyn that I would be taking a few “better” photos during the first part of practice but when I actually showed up to do so I think she was a little embarrassed. I ended up rushing through it and not getting the great shots I had hoped for.
Oh well. She’s at the pool all the time. I’ll try it again another time.
Work out. Home. Homework check for Tyler. Dinner. Sunset. Call it good for the day.
And that’s it for Thursday. Tune in tomorrow for Friday’s Words and Photos for Week in the Life 2017.
Until then, feel free to check out some of my previous Week in the Life Posts
Or take a look at some of my other projects like the Great Kitchen Remodel (half-way through the updates there, I’ll have a new blog post up on that next week), my Spring Tulip Wreath, or Ideas for upcoming Teacher Appreciation (ideas HERE, HERE, and HERE).
This week I’ve been sharing my experience with Ali Edwards’ Week in the Life photo project for this year. I spent last week keeping the camera (or more often the camera phone) nearby and trying to document the small moments that are often overlooked in regular life.
Kinda fun, right?
Restless night meant I was more than ready to get up and be productive so I baked muffins for the kids at 6:15AM. (First Instagram post of the day)
Sam headed off to the base instead of his regular job in order to get ready to head overseas next week. First day in uniform with his new promotion but in too much of a hurry to stop for a photo or wait for muffins.
Kaitlyn, however, was more than happy to have something home made for breakfast.
One of my favorite ways to make muffins uses cake mix (today’s was yellow cake mix) and a can of pumpkin. Just two ingredients so it’s super easy and the pumpkin makes it healthier than most. Tyler prefers it with chocolate cake mix and ate only one muffin but Kaitlyn said she likes it better this way.
7AM means she’s out the door (and not exactly pleased that I told her to pause for a photo).
This boy has such a great teacher. In order to solidify a concept she asked them to wear something at least vaguely military today. Good thing we have no problem pulling that together at the last minute. Tyler was excited to wear his dad’s hat (or, er, his “cover”).
Today was a day for just going with the flow. Original plan had been volunteering in Ty’s class then heading to the city to get my Easter shopping done. However, last night I agreed to go into work in the afternoon as Cha Cha was excited to start some of the organizing we had discussed earlier that day.
Typically on Wednesdays I spend my time after Tyler leaves getting myself ready and off to the school for my standing date volunteering in Tyler’s classroom. This morning though I got a text saying they had a few extras added to their day at school and I wouldn’t be needed today. So I decided to take a bit more time with the morning routine and read in the tub for a while.
Work was then bumped from 1:00 until 2:00 so it’s a very good thing Sam had already planned to pick Kaitlyn up from swim team practice on his way home from work so I was able to stay a bit longer. We worked on organizing computer files the entire time.
As you can see it was another day with fewer photos than I would normally take during a Week in the Life project. I guess that’s just how it goes sometimes. Life feels a bit TOO ordinary or I forget or I’m too tired. So I wrapped it up for Wednesday with a view of what I am beginning to think of as my “command center.” This end table between the couch and the chair I typically use when on the computer or watching TV is always covered with a random collection of notebooks, calendars and books and whatever needs my attention at the time, like the spelling bee word list for Tyler and the clipboard I’m using to take notes for Week in the Life.
At this point I did go on a search for more inspiration for Week in the Life and as you will see tomorrow, my enthusiasm (and photo count) did go up a few notches for the rest of the week.
I’ll be back tomorrow! Feel free to share your Week in the Life experiences or take a look at some of my other photos for the week.
Week in the Life – a week long photo project intended to document a typical week and appreciate it for what it is. I have made the point of participating along with Ali Edwards and the Week in the Life Community for a few years and really enjoy the process.
A lot of the community started documenting their photos yesterday so you still have plenty of time to jump in! I chose to start last week as that was a more routine week than this week will be. So this week I get to pull it all together in a series of blog posts.
Pretty sure this was the day I took the least number of photos. Possibly because it’s a little harder to get the motivation and creativity flowing without the enthusiasm of doing the project with everyone else? Possibly because I spent a good part of the day at work and was concentrating on that instead of pulling out the camera. Possibly I was just tired.
First photo of the day was that picture of the alarm clock. Instagram caption read: Good morning Tuesday. First photo of the day for Week in the Life. At this point I had been awake more than an hour – typical. I try to tell myself to go back to sleep but it doesn’t work. Instead I end up laying there trying to enjoy the comfy bed, the quiet, and the time with the husband before he goes to work. Once he heads out then I pick up a book or the computer until Kaitlyn finishes showering.
After Kaitlyn heads upstairs I usually get up and get breakfast (most of the time that’s oatmeal with cranberries and almonds) and spend more time on the computer until it’s time to wake up Tyler.
found me at the office. This is still kind of new for me, having somewhere to go to “work” even if it’s only for a few hours a week. Lots and lots of time on the computer, part of which was spent putting together and sending out their first ever email newsletter.
Didn’t leave the office until 1:40 so it was a very quick, very late lunch and a quick change before heading to the gym (while Kaitlyn is at the pool, of course). This is my almost-daily view of the drive to the rec center. My car could probably get there all on its own at this point.
found everyone home, homework done, dinner finished. Grabbed a quick photo of Sam and the braces since I realized I hadn’t taken one and he had another orthodontist appointment the next day. Braces at 36. Better late than never, right?
Barely over half a dozen photos of the day today has me worried that I didn’t do “enough.”
Silly isn’t it? It’s my album, I shouldn’t worry.
Then I came up with the idea of adding in a few more journaling/word prompts for this day to fill it in. I want to add in a list of prompts using “_____ing.” Things like: reading, watching, listening to, eating, loving…
nightly down time with the kids. Typically this involves a couple of episodes of Star Wars (Next Generation – yes, Sam has gotten Kaitlyn hooked on that). Tyler and I usually have the tablet/laptop out as the show doesn’t hold our attention quite as well as it does for Kaitlyn and Sam. Added bonus tonight was a box of Smores Girl Scout cookies. Bambi obviously thinks she should have been given some too.
And that’s it for the day. I’ll be back again tomorrow with Wednesday’s Words and Photos.
Every so often I feel the need to take a closer look at my life. To look at the routines and everyday items in a different light. Maybe to appreciate them more. To change my perspecitive a bit.
Luckily, I am reminded to take the time to do so every year when Ali Edwards initiates her Week in the Life photo project. I have participated along with this project for a number of years now (some more successfully than others).
The main point of the project is to document the everyday. Ali and most of the Week in the Life community have planned to start documenting their Week in the Life today. However, this year the husband is headed out of town for a good chunk of this week and the rest of April, so I decided to start documenting my Week in the Life last week. I took photos and kept notes and tried to post more than usual on Instagram. Now this week I want to pull all my thoughts together in a series of blog posts (Words and Photos) and order photo prints so that I can put everything together in my physical album sooner rather than later. (Which will be a first for me, for sure!)
“Tyler, your alarm went off. Time to get up.”
Ty: “I know. I wasn’t ready. I need more sleep!”
The Monday after Spring Break. Oh boy. (from Instagram post)
I bribed him to get out of bed with the promise of Gosner’s flavored milk for his lunchbox today.
Monday means laundry. All. Day. Long.
Morning routine includes saying goodbye to Kaitlyn first (who refused to pause for a photo) then making sure Tyler is on the ball with breakfast and packing his lunch. This week he has to pack lunch in a paper bag instead of his usual lunchbox as he has been “tossing his lunchbox into the air on on top of the lockers” at school lately and his teacher doesn’t want to deal with it anymore. *sigh*
Despite the slow start, Tyler did manage to complete all his morning routine with enough time to spare to (unwillingly) study for the spelling bee this week.
I spend my mornings keeping Ty on track while cleaning up the kitchen. Usually I have much more than this to deal with – phew.
We had some snow over the weekend but that didn’t keep Bambi from wanting to enjoy the sunshine. She found a dry spot and refused to come inside for a good chunck of the day.
Most of the morning and early afternoon was laundry. Some computer stuff for work. Laundry. To Do List and phone calls/texts. Laundry. Lunch. Laundry.
My usual afternoon view. I try to work out while Kaitlyn has swim team practice. She is still a very determined girl. Can’t wait to see her progress in the upcoming swim meets.
I’ve been happy to have been able to run into an old friend from high school a few weeks ago and we have since developed a habit of working out together during most of Kaitlyn’s swim practices. I love that I have someone to keep me company and I think Kaitlyn loves that I’m not getting sick of being there so easily and prodding her out of the pool before she’s ready to leave.
This is where my photo taking fizzled for the day. When we got home from the rec center I was happy to see that Tyler was almost finished with his homework. The rest of the evening is pretty standard. Laundry. Dinner. Finish folding laundry and get everyone to put it away. Relax in front of screens or books until bedtime.
I’ll be back tomorrow with Tuesday’s Words and Photos. If you’re participating in Week in the Life, I’d love to hear about it!
–2016 Sunday’s Words and Photos (looks like the rest of the week may not have survived the switch to the new website 🙁 I might have to work upsoon to show of the completed album for 2016) a blog post
–2016 Saturday’s Words and Photos
–2015 Sunday’s Words and Photos
–2015 Saturday’s Words and Photos
–2015 Friday’s Words and Photos
–2015 Thursday’s Words and Photos
–2015 Wednesday’s Words and Photos
–2015 Tuesday’s Words and Photos
–2015 Monday’s Words and Photos
Isn’t Spring fantastic? With all the snow melting, the grass starting to get green, flowers popping up, birds singing, and a new baby calf added to the herd every few days…
Well, it’s hard not to feel a little happy boost that Spring has officially begun, isn’t it?
Sure, there is mud to deal with. I made the husband bring home a few bags of mulch last week and we spread them in the rain because I couldn’t stand to clean up mud every time the dog went outside. (I was really wishing my Spot Bot hadn’t died and I had a new Shop Amazon – Presenting the Bissell Symphony) And my body is definitely not swimming suit ready. But, that is vastly outweighed by the overwhelming urge to spend as much time as possible outside enjoying the weather.
Last weekend, my daughter suggested we roll out the fire pit and roast hot dogs and marshmallows for dinner. That’s one of our favorite things to do as a family during warmer weather. The kids happily rode their bikes and played wall ball with each other while the husband and I enjoyed sitting by the fire for a couple of hours.
As I sat there staring into the fire, I couldn’t help thinking how glad I was that Kaitlyn has suggested something so simple yet thoroughly enjoyable. Then I started thinking about all of the many other small things in life we had celebrated the past week or so. (It had been kind of a crazy one actually)
Making it through my daughter’s back to back swim meet and band concert. Celebrated that one by letting her pick out ice cream on the way home. My little guy’s final Utah Citizenship performance (part of months of work and many projects and tests for them) celebrated again by letting him pick out ice cream on the way home. That one happened to fall on the same day we went before the county for approvals on our building lot (got it! Just a few more hoops to jump through before it’s official). In among there, I hosted our monthly Bunco group and that always feels like a party.
And you know what? Life is so much more enjoyable when you take a minute to appreciate the small things when they happen. Everything seems better when you purposely give yourself and your loved ones small things to look forward to. When once in a while we make the everyday special.
-a warm sunny day
-school or sporting event (ice cream!)
-one of those random “National ____ Day” Find a long list of holidays by date HERE. (I can’t believe I didn’t do anything for pie/pi day last! It falls on March 14. 3/14 – get it?)
-accomplishments – a promotion, finishing a big project, the baby took her first step, the 4th grader memorized his multiplication tables
-because it’s been a while since you had a dinner party or lunch out
-because the kids have other plans and you and the husband have some free time to spend together
-because it’s the weekend
-because it’s Monday
-because we’re all tired and need to relax and indulge
-the first ____ of the year (snowstorm, flower, hot dog/marshmallow roast)
-because it’s Girl Scout Cookie season
-minor holidays (St Pat’s, April Fool’s, Labor Day, etc.)
-change of seasons
-local events (strawberry picking season, hot air balloon festival, etc)
-because you missed someone’s birthday/anniversary
-the divorce is final
-your favorite author just released a new book
-that movie you’ve been dying to see finally hits the theaters
-get outside (walk, hike, ride bikes, roast marshmallows, fly kites, blow bubbles, fire up the grill Shop Amazon – Grilling and Outdoor Cooking Products)
-take a picture
-go out to eat
-try a new restaurant
-wash the car (what? Are you telling me having a nice shiny car after months of snow and salt-covered roads doesn’t count as a celebration?! Have you SEEN the line at the car wash at the first sunny day in a while?)
-plant flowers (Shop Amazon – Gardening Products)
-rent a movie (or find one on Amazon Prime Try Amazon Prime 30-Day Free Trial or Netflix)
-cook something seasonal or extra-yummy
-document it – journal it, scrapbook it, post it on Instagram
-surprise someone (treat, card, gift)
-invite people over
-family game night
-food, food, and more food (funny how so many things revolve around food, isn’t it?)
Well that’s my list. I hope to keep adding to it, so please feel free to share your own Life’s Little Celebrations, and how you recognize the small moments.
Give yourself something to look forward to.
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Linking to: Made By You Monday,
Today we are hitting the tail end of what has been one of the most eventful weeks I have had in a very long time. I’m not sure why things didn’t end up more spread out this month but events seemed to happen back to back to back this week. We had birthday parties and band concerts and shopping to do and gifts to wrap and elves to supervise (tons of elf on the shelf inspiration here and here if you need it!) and I joined in on a couple of things I don’t normally do for the holidays. Plus add in keeping up on the routine things like running kids to the orthodontist, checking homework, cleaning the house, volunteering in Tyler’s classroom, paying bills, running errands, and getting the husband to cook dinner as often as possible…
Among all of this I keep seeing mentions of simplifying the holidays on social media and it has me wondering – do I really want to simplify my holidays this year? Did I somehow take on too much or do it wrong this time around?
I hate feeling like I’m rushed or stressed and typically I’m pretty good at saying “no” to things that will bring too much of that into my life. I almost always plan ahead and try to get the prep work done for big projects, parties, etc. days or weeks before they need to be done because I dislike doing anything last-minute. My goal for Christmas is to have the majority of my gift shopping done by December 1st and here it is the 11th and I’m still missing things and in some cases I don’t even had decent gift ideas figured out.
When I pulled out my calendar Thanksgiving weekend and realized that we had committed to sooooooo many things that fell this second week of December I had a moment of panic wondering how we were going to handle it all. I’ve been hoping daily that I won’t get sick because things would come to screeching halt if I did. I have had to keep pretty close track of my time and priorities since then. And there has been more than one night when my elf alarm (yes I set a nightly alarm on my phone for 30 minutes past bedtime to help me remember those elves) went off and I found myself wishing Tyler was ready to move on to being Santa’s helper along with his big sister (not that I ever want to wish my kids older or more experienced and jaded than they are – they grow up WAY too fast already).
I haven’t regretted a single event or plan we made this week. Not one.
My son had an awesome amazing birthday and a crazy chaotic joyful birthday party (birthday on Monday, party Friday night. blog post to be determined!).
My daughter shone in her band concert, more poised and confidant each time one of these comes around.
Our Bunco Christmas party was a pajama-clad, gift-stealing, fun tradition.
I got to know a lot of great people in the neighborhood and renew acquaintances with other fantastic people I haven’t seen in a long time while I spent hours helping decorating for the church party (a church I don’t actually attend). It turned out beautifully and there is satisfaction in that along with the pleasure of watching the party itself happen. I was busy most of the party as well, playing Santa’s helper and the interactions between Santa and the kids, teens, and even the adults were so fun to watch. (Santa was really on his game yesterday – it was awesome). PS – I’ll blog about the party details soon!
And for the first time since high school (I think we hit the 20 year reunion this year!) I took the opportunity to sing with a big choir at the community Christmas concert last night (a much bigger event than I knew it would be when I signed up).
So my take-away from this week?
Sometimes putting in the extra effort is totally worth it.
No matter what you are doing or what you may need to be doing in an hour, be fully in the moment and enjoy that one thing on its own.
Don’t be afraid to say yes.
Do I recommend filling every week to the brim? Nope. Do I want to take on every single thing someone asks me to do? Nuh-uh. Do I intend to take one day next week and spend it on the couch binge watching a show, drinking hot chocolate and forgetting everything else for an afternoon? Absolutely.
Life isn’t about doing only the minimum or cutting out some of the hoopla simply because it’s what other people are doing. I think we need to give ourselves things to look forward to.
You can’t do everything but you can do anything you choose.
So choose wisely but don’t be afraid to push yourself a bit. I don’t think you’ll regret it either.
We are now off to the big gingerbread house decorating party with the husband’s family…
Happy 4th of July! It’s ok if I jump the gun a little bit right? I’m pretty sure the festivities (4 nights of rodeo) start tomorrow night here anyway.
The 4th of July is one of my favorite holidays. I love the enthusiasm for it here in my hometown. The flags all over the place. So many events to pick and choose however we want to celebrate. And the red, white and blue – one of my favorite color combinations. So, when it worked out that it’s my mom’s turn to host our Bunco group right after the 4th of July we were really excited to put together the prizes. And what better for a 4th of July/summer theme than food-related gift baskets?!
The prizes are supposed to range in cost from about $12 to $24 so all five of these gift basket ideas are under $25. As a fun twist we not only stuck to a summer food/dinner theme but tried to incorporate as much of the red, white and blue patriotic theme as we could find. With the 24th of July Pioneer Days celebration here in Utah, we keep the red, white and blue out the entire month of July 😉
My favorite basket would have to be our picnic themed one. We found this adorable insulated picnic basket to use as the base for the gift (from TJ Maxx). I love that it’s red, white and blue colors but flower-patterned instead of stars and stripes so you can use it any time of year. We filled the basket with patriotic themed picnic supplies – paper plates, napkins, those adorable red mason jar drinking cups with straws, a vinyl tablecloth, and red, white and blue tortilla chips to finish it off.
What’s summer without ice cream, right? We just had to do an ice cream themed basket but the kind of base to use for the theme was a bit of a sticking point. In the end we went with a basket of sand toys – ice cream and the beach works great, right? The little sand strainer was the perfect thing to lift the items up so you can seem them above the top of the basket. The basket is filled with an ice cream scoop, ice cream cones and waffle bowls, and a selection of toppings like chocolate and caramel syrup, marshmallow cream, and of course, some red white and blue sprinkles.
With all of the free concerts in the park, drive-ins, or those fun DIY back yard movie theaters that summer has to offer, we went with a popcorn theme for our third basket. This one was also a good fit for our least expensive gift basket since it doesn’t take a lot to make this one cute. We grabbed a blue popcorn bowl for the base and smaller individuals bowls in red, then added some microwave popcorn and a selection of popcorn seasonings.
Our local grocery store always has these great hot dog roasting sticks in stock and we knew we wanted to use these for one of the gifts (I have a set and we use them ALL the time). The tricky part was figuring out how to package up something so long and skinny. In the end we went a similar route as the ice cream but instead of sand toys we tied everything to a children’s bat and ball set (baseball and hotdogs – totally works). We also added a set of hot dog baskets (red, white, and blue!) like you would get at the drive-in, condiment squirt bottles and a container of potato chips.
For our final gift basket we went with a back yard grilling/BBQ theme. The container is a plastic water pitcher to which we added some grilling tools, kebab baskets, corn on the cob holders, a grill brush with some barbeque sauce and a marinade, and a lighter.
I can’t decide which one I would like to win – can you? 😉 I can’t wait for our Bunco party, but first I’m going to enjoy the fireworks this weekend.